Choosing your wedding photographer is about so much more than finding someone whose Instagram you love.
Your photographer will be with you through some of the most meaningful, emotional, and fast-moving parts of your wedding day. You want someone whose work you love, but also someone whose personality, communication style, and approach make you feel comfortable.
So, before you officially book, here are 10 questions I recommend asking your wedding photographer.

Every photographer approaches a wedding differently. Some focus heavily on posed and editorial images, while others take a more documentary approach. Ask yourself what you want your gallery to feel like.
At LT Photography, my approach is very candid, relaxed, and experience-focused making for a style that blends genuine moments with gentle direction. I want your photos to feel natural and full of emotion while still giving you the beautiful, timeless portraits you envision.

If you’re nervous about being in front of the camera, ask how your photographer works with couples who aren’t naturally comfortable posing.
You shouldn’t have to figure out what to do with your hands or where to look on your own!
I use simple prompts and gentle direction throughout the day while giving you room to interact naturally. My goal is never to make you feel like you’re performing for the camera. If you’re nervous about posing, I highly recommend reading this blog. It breaks down exactly how I go about directing clients and gives you a few tips to use, too!!

More hours don’t necessarily mean better photos. The right amount of coverage depends on what you want documented.
Do you want getting-ready photos? A first look? Cocktail hour? The full reception? Just the major events? Think about which parts of your day you’ll want to remember and build your coverage around those priorities.
If you’re unsure, this is something your photographer should be able to help you figure out. I work with couples to create a timeline that gives us enough time for the photos they care about without making the entire day revolve around photography. Check out this blog if you’d like to learn more about what different hours of coverage entail.
Make sure you understand exactly what you’re paying for.
Ask about:
Packages can look very different from photographer to photographer, so comparing the total experience—not just the price—is important.

Your photographer should know how long different portions of the day typically take and be able to help you create a realistic timeline.
At LT Photography, I’ll keep an open line of communication with you so I can stay in the loop of any updates or ideas you may have. About a month before the wedding, I’ll send a questionnaire about your plans and photography priorities. We’ll then go over everything together so we can finalize your coverage and timeline.
The goal is to make the photography fit naturally into your day—not the other way around. If you’re looking for the best tips to build your wedding day timeline, I recommend you check out this blog here.
This is one of the best questions you can ask.
A website or Instagram is a great place to get a feel for a photographer’s style, but you’re usually seeing their absolute favorite images. Ask to see a full wedding gallery so you can understand what their work looks like from beginning to end.
Look at the getting-ready photos, family portraits, ceremony, reception, low-light images, candid moments, and everything in between. You want to know that your photographer can tell the whole story, not just create a few beautiful hero shots.

Because it probably won’t—and that’s completely okay!
Ask how your photographer handles delays, weather changes, difficult lighting, timeline changes, or unexpected moments throughout the day. A good photographer should be able to adapt without making you feel stressed about every little change.
My approach is to stay flexible and respond to what’s happening around me. Your wedding day is about you, not about following a perfectly timed photoshoot. I’ll make sure you get amazing images regardless of how the day plays out. Let me worry about capturing the day and you enjoy experiencing it!
Make sure you know when you can expect your gallery. This is probably the most frustrating part of your wedding photography experience. No one wants to wait months to see the amazing photos of their big day.
At LT Photography, couples receive sneak peeks within 24 hours (oftentimes sooner!) with the full gallery delivered within the contracted 2-week to 1-month timeframe depending on the package.
I know how hard it is to wait for your photos, so I love getting those first images into your hands as quickly as possible!

Understanding the process after you book can make the entire experience feel much less overwhelming.
Ask what communication will look like between booking and your wedding day. Will you receive a questionnaire? Will you have a planning call? When will you create your timeline? Who can you contact with questions?
At LT Photography, booking is just the beginning. I stay in touch throughout the process, help with timelines, and make sure we have a clear understanding of what you want before your wedding day arrives. I know this part can be a bit overwhelming but I’m here to help. I’ll also walk you through contracts and the payment plans I offer. My goal is to make this process as stress-free and easy as possible.

This might be the most important part. This question is a little less about photography and more about how you feel around the person who will be there on your wedding day.
Your photographer will be around for some of the most personal parts of the day: the excitement while you’re getting ready, the happy tears, the nerves before walking down the aisle, the hugs with your family, and the moments when you finally get a quiet second alone with your new spouse. You want someone you genuinely feel comfortable having there through all of it.
Do you feel like you can relax around them? Do you like their personality? Do you feel like they listen to what matters to you?
You don’t necessarily need to feel like you’ve found your new best friend. You just want to feel comfortable, understood, and confident that you’re in good hands.
That’s something I really value with my couples. I want you to feel comfortable enough to forget about the camera, enjoy your people, and let the day unfold naturally. Because when you look back at your photos years from now, I want you to remember not only how everything looked, but how it felt to be there.
At the end of the day, choosing a wedding photographer isn’t just about finding someone who takes beautiful pictures.
It’s about finding someone whose work, personality, communication, and approach feel right for you.
You want someone who can capture the planned moments, but also recognize the little things happening around them. Someone who can guide you when you need direction but knows when to step back. Someone who helps you feel taken care of before, during, and after your wedding day.
That’s what I strive to create at LT Photography.
Your wedding day goes by quickly and my job is to help you stay present in it while preserving the moments you’ll want to come back to for years to come. If you think we’d be a great fit, reach out! I’d love to hear all about your wedding day vision.

September 11, 2026
Choosing your wedding photographer is about so much more than finding someone whose Instagram you love. Your photographer will be with you through some of the most meaningful, emotional, and fast-moving parts of your wedding day. You want someone whose work you love, but also someone whose personality, communication style, and approach make you feel […]

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Lexi Thompson is a photographer based in the DMV area that captures the joy and milestones of life. Her vibrant approach to her sessions creates a comfortable and natural environment for genuine smiles and happiness. Message for destination sessions and travel schedule.
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